Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Finding Peace

       Sometimes we come into this world with challenges that makes us question our purpose when we come across that challenge what do we do?

       Finding peace often times feels like such a long journey to get to especially if you live a very hectic and stressful life. Once we actually get the peace at the right time, it seems like it doesn't last. This could be because of over thinking and getting caught up in our own head.

       It is important to know that everyone is worth something. People are worth an extra "me" time, people are worth a vacation, worth a spa, or even something as simple as a bath. It all starts with getting out of your head first.

       The process of getting out of your head seems simple and it can be, but it's not always easy. When challenges come into play, we might have a set plan on how we are going to conquer it. A lot of times either a situation don't go our way or it becomes overwhelming.

        It can feel like  never ending cycle, but one thing that is important to know is, it is fine to turn down something if you don't want to go through it. It is fine to put yourself first. Sometimes the problem with facing challenges is how to manage them.

        In the process of finally finding peace, there are many things to consider:

1. Find what makes you happy
2. Have a hobby
3. Techniques to clear your head
4. Have time management

       When you finally have peace, keep it consistent so that way whenever you feel like you are in a rut, you know what to do and where to go get out of your head.


Thursday, March 19, 2015

Scheduling Friendships

It's not what you think, but who you know. What happens when the people in your life that love have incompatible priorities?

       Sometimes people are in our life for a season, and sometimes for a reason. When we come across someone that we have a connection with, the instant chemistry can be tricky. We never know if it's temporary or a lifetime of a friendship. So when it comes down to how we live our lives it's a lot of work. Time management is the main thing. You can get so caught in your life that when you have down time it's hard to focus on outside pleasures like dates, sports, activities, parties, and even friendships.

      Priorities are something that everyone struggles with from time to time especially when a change has happened in your life. It's up to the person to figure out what type lifestyle they want to have and associate themselves with people that has acceptance and respect for the situation. Respect is very important to have in any situation. It allows the circle of friends gain a sense of trust and helps with the time management. It also determines who your true friends are and who is the best to trust.

It's best to take the time out on figuring out what is considered a best friend by being our own best friend first.