Monday, October 31, 2011

Social Health

Our society is very controversial on so many issues and with the atttitudes that people carry that makes others unhappy is causing unhealthy situations to happen in our world. Since we are social beings it is important that people learn how to communicate with one another so that way everyone has an understanding on people's views and perspectives on things. In this day in age people tend to just do things and not have intelligent conversations because they are afraid that they will miss something in their lives despite how dangerous it is. Talking and expressing your feelings is part of living a healthy lifestyle. It is important to have a support system or a circle of friends that care about you so that way when you have problems you won't leave them bottled up inside. You can at least say there are people in your lives that are worth talking to so not only get opinions from them, but also to let certain things go.

Sunday, October 30, 2011


Everybody goes through stress all the time. People just cope with them differently. There are so many causes to stress whether it is a bad relationship, work, friends, etc. So many things can get you all worked up very quickly. It is scarier when it effects them physically because some people can get rashes or just get overall sick and sometimes the stress is usually beyond our control. The important thing is trying to deal with and relieve the stress. Of course it should be healthy choices to relieve so that way we can learn from our mistakes and move on and also what we can do different if it happens again.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Invisibility/Respect Levels

Society has so many standards that have crushed people's self-esteem for a long time and it's to the point where it is out of control. This world is solely based to much on looks instead of the spirit of people. There was a study done that said that attractive people get more jobs and opportunties than unattractive people just because of their looks. That is pretty sad because some people never get a chance to go inside the minds of the unexpected or the unique. It is a true statement that first impression is everything, but that shouldn't be the only concern either. The typical all-american look is blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, nice legs, and have a young look. That is pretty much the american standard of women and anyone the opposite of that is pretty much beneath them. These people that are beneath the standard are considered the invisible people because they are irrelevant. That is really harsh and disrespectful because god made all of us, but yet people want to be ignorant and unaccepting of the fact that they are different types of people. This has been going on for years and it just seems to get worst everyday. This issue is translated into everyday activities whether it is sports, work, school, etc. It is greatly effected in schools because kids are growing up and learning new things and getting into new experiences which comes with a lot of expectations. Bullying is becoming so severe and most of it is based off of looks and your sexuality. In high school there are all these categories and cliches that people actually follow which is like the standards of school on how you have to be and anyone else is beneath them. This world is such a controlled environment that it is not allowing people to live their lives the way they want to because there are too many unnecessary standards to follow. ThtheI

Emotional Intelligence

It is important that people have emotional intelligence because it has a lot to do with how you think about things and deal with your emotions. There are so many people who are not emotionaal and there are some people that are afraid to be emotional. This type of issue makes people feel some type of way because of how they handle situations. Everybody has the unique ability to control their emotions, but it's how you go about it that separates it from how you feel. It is always good to talk about your feelings, it's just that it is up to you on when to talk about it.

Friday, October 28, 2011

Hair Care

Hair is something that is very important to a girl in some type of way. She may love it short and wish to keep it that way because it is easier to deal with and can do simple styles with it. She loves it long because it makes us feel that, that is where all of our beauty is held. You can do many different styles with long hair and taking care of it is a lot of work. The texture of it is also a big deal. Straight-hair girls would love to have curly hair and curly-hair girls would love it straight sometimes. Either way our hair is that is the main thing we talk about or deal with on a daily basis when it comes to grooming and pampering ourselves. Everyone's hair is different epecially of different races. Caucasion women seem to have the best type of hair because it comes in many different colors and textures whereas African-American women seem to have coarse, thick hair tha is difficult to grow, but there are actually many ways for all hair types to grow and stay healthy we just never knew what exactly is the secret because we just assume certain products are for certain types of hair, but in reality all hair types have the same components. There are a lot of ingriedients that you would never think are for your that are usually for another specific purpose. The main thing to remember though is the fact that whatever you use it has to be purely NATURAL! That is the key word. Natural. Even if it is a regular product that has natural ingriedients in it, it is still processed and chemicalized so make sure whatever you get is all natural. At the same time, there are also websites that say to use household products for your hair one being birth control. Not necessarily consuming them, but crushing the pills and mixing them with olive oil then use them as a conditioner. Isn't that weird! With that being said it is important to condition on your scalp for amount 3 minutes because the blood should circulate that causes scalpal stimulation for growth as well. As always you should use a silk wrap for your hair at night time or a silk pillowcase so that way your ends are healthy and to prevent damaged hair. This is a typical routine for black women because of the texture of our hair, but it has also been said that white women should wrap their hair as well to keep it healthy. Castor oil is also an important essential element for your hair because it contains amino acids and nutrients that is the one thing that your hair craves for. Always have your hair hydrated as well. It's like when it doubt, hydrate your hair. Hydration is important for damaged, oily, dry, all types of hair. Since your hair is also made out of protein you need to condition it with more protein and the best kind of protein to use is raw eggs. What you do is mix the eggs with olive oil and castor oil as well as coconut juice and once you put it in your hair where a shower cap so those ingriedients can penatrate into the hair shaft. I've tried and I'm actually pleased. The weirdest thing that I've heard to use on your hair is beer. Again not necessarily consuming it, but using it as a conditioner. This is because of the yeast in the contents that is good for the hair shaft as well, but another drink to use is kool-aid. Not sure why I've heard it works really, but as good as it is to drink I don't know if it's as good as a conditioner, but it's probably worth a try. Also of course mayonnaise is good for your hair because of the amount of protein that it contains as well. Most women use it once a month or even use it for co-washing. At the same time even though going natural is the best option, whatever benefits your hair is your choice especially if it has kept your hair healthy all this time.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

The Choking Game

This choking game is such a dangerous trend that it has already killed so many teens just with their first time playing it. It is pretty much a different way to get high without using drugs. In reality it is just as bad becuase you are putting your health at risk. People are intentionally decreasing the amount of oxygen to their brain so they can hallucinate and get a sense of feeling high that you get from smoking weed. People also use this game for sexual arousal. It is a thing called auto-arouse hallucination where you cut off the amount of oxygen to your brain and accumulate carbon dioxide to get aroused. These two situations are actually two separate activities, but for the purpose of doing something daring and dangerous to feel another type of way to yourself. Thses type of games have got to stop because we are losing our generation.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Face Punching

There's a new trend going on called face punching which is exactly what it sounds like. Kids are actually wanting to get punched in the face because they think it's funny. They also make videos of themselves get knocked out so they can look back on it and laugh. They don't see it as harmful, but instead humorous. The funny thing is it is a game, but the rules are crazy. You can't hit in the temple, the back of the head, or back the neck which is silly when you can simply just not hit each other at all to save the trouble. Why give out these type of rules when you can just simply avoid the game as a whole. Another reason why some kids play this game is to build up resistence for when they get into a real fight. It sounds reasonable, but it still sounds like an unreasonable activity to do. One kid was even interviewed about this game because he atually participates in it and he tells his grandmother to hit him because it's funny and to train her to fight better. That is the silliest thing ever because that goes to show you how bored someone can really get. Then they interviewed another guy that participated in a punching game few years prior, but the incident caused him to have brain damage. He pretty much explained that the impact the guy's fist against his forehead caused him to blackout and crush the front part of his skull. That traumatic experience caused him to loose that piece of his skull leave no protection of his brain. Now the boy can't really do any physical activities for the sake of his head all because him and his friends wanted to play rough by punching each other. It seem like this day in age boredom has got the best of people. It can make you do crazy things, but it has become out of control. Teens are inventing new ways of being stupid. Everyday you hear an incident that a teen did that is such a gruesome crime that you would never thought would happen. A lot teens feel like they have to do crazy things or be disrespectful to get the respect they deserve when that same respect isn't the type of respect that people should want since they are giving it the wrong way.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011


There is another trend going on with young teens which is called batmannning. It was inspired by planking because of the position that your body is in. Batmanning itself is said to derive from the cartoon Batman and it's an activity where you hang upside down suspended off of anything. It is so silly that I don't know why someone would invent this. There are so many videos on this trend showing a bunch of boys hanging off of buildings, doors, ceiling poles, etc. The idea is to pretty much hang off of somewhere dangerous to also resemble the cape crucader character. This is such a disaster to our generation because we keep creating new ways of stupidity that makes us look worst than we already do. This activity is becoming so prevelant that it is spreading over the UK. Facebook has really marketed this over to other countries to younger generations since there is so many sensations and video clips on facebook explaining newer places to try it at. The weird thing is the fact that people are able to climb up into the position with no problem and climb down at the same time unless they have the help with their friends. Either way this sounds like a dangerous stunt that doesn't need to really be popular because there is no purpose to it besides the fact that it is an adrenaline rush and something daring to do, but if you are hanging off buildings and in street parking lots someone could get hurt.


Fridging is another trend where you basically pose inside the refridgerator. Some people were complaining about because it's useless. It started when Nikki Minaj did a photoshoot with a refridgerator and then all of a sudden people were doing that in their pictures. As silly as this trend is, it doesn't seem like a big deal. Since it is not harming anyone, posing in front of it is not necessary of a problem unless you have illegal objects stored in the fridge. Another fridging trend is when you break into someone's garage and steal alcohol from someone's fridge. I didn't realize that was called fridging, but it's not talked about as much, but that is a lot worst than posing in front of the open refridgerator.

Monday, October 24, 2011


What is the deal with these crazy trends. Stupidity is becoming an activity. Kids are translating anything into something everyday. Planking is one of the trends that started to become popular which is where you lay on your stomach at a dangerous location. It was said to derive from slavery and when cops would arrest a criminal and lay him on the ground. I don't understand why people would be inspired from something negative and make it into an activity. It has no reason to do so in the beginning. We need to pray for everyone because this is getting ridiculous.

Double Standards

This world is living in double standards. Most people actually follow them, but they are so hypocritical that it is ridiculous. One of the main double standards revolve around how boys and girls grow up. When kids go through puberty it seems like boys have a clean slate more than girls do. A dad or mom usually gives the son condoms and tell him to have fun while in the meantime they tell the daughter to not do anything at all. That sounds pretty selfish. I understand the girl has more consequences than the boy, but the guy is just as responsible for the consequences as she does. Therefore it is not fair to teach one gender one thing and the other gender another thing when a human being is a human being. It also seems contradictory when sometimes a guy will teach his close female family member to not get involved with any guys, but at the same time he is doing that to someone elses daughter or loved one. It's silly, but it happens. People should be able to teach both genders the same type of reality checks to get a sense of both sides. This will also them understand each other especially since that is the main problem in relationships between a straight couple. Women complain that they don't understand men and some men complain about women. Yea it is true that we are different, but what harm does it do teach each other how different we are instead of hating each other because of what we don't understand. how

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Virgin Controversy

Being a virgin is a such a beautiful thing, but I think people forgot about that. In this day in age, people look at virginity like it's a disease to get rid of. It's such an issue that when people state their opinion about it, it tends to sound hypocritical. People like virgins because they are clean, fresh, never been touched you know physically they're ok, but the problems is the skills and the emotions behind it. They are afraid of the attachment and hurting the person's feelings when getting involved with them. Another problem is the inexperience of the person. It's a weird thing because at one point you were inexperienced to become experienced so it's almost hard to negotiate with someone that's been where you are going because you don't know the outcome afterwards especially if you are a female. At the same it is something you will never forget because that person was your first. Whether it was worth it or not is up to you. I do feel that a person should give their virginity to someone that is worthy of keeping it because you can't get it back.

The Issues With Adult Films

The sex industry is very controversial because of the fact that it is a business. Some people feel like it is giving the wrong impression of sexuality which in certain ways it is. The industries job is to create a fantasy for your pleasure and it is up to you to make the reality you want it to be. Other people tend to get disappointed when something didn't turn out the way they wanted, but that's because maybe they didn't get a sense of the imagination they wanted. Adult film stars rarely tell the dark side of the sex industry anyway because they have to make money from the movies they make to keep the viewers interested. Reporters have interviewed different film stars to explain their experience in the business and of course it's pretty graphic. They explained how easily people carry diseases to each other without even knowing they do so, also how damaging your body gets when doing long running scenes with different co-stars, and how racist it can be in the industry. These interviews were very explicit to the point where it almost wasn't going to be exposed on tv. I went to a convention at my school about this issue and the speaker, Gail Dines, summed up the dark side perfectly. She is the author of the book "Pornland, How Porn Has Hijacked Sexuality" very interesting book that any can be able to read and give their opion off of it. She explained how women are categorized either by their sexual skills, race, positions, orientations, etc more than men. The dangers are very severe to the point where it can't be changed. As far as the consumer aspect of it most people feel like watching pornography is considered cheating when you are in a relationship. Some people feel it's cheating as far as frequency and others just feel like watching it in general is cheating. Again, adult films are just fantasy visuals and it is up to you what you take from it. You could only cheat from how you act on it to other people and not your significant other. Some people take their imagination to another level and it tends to create problems within each other. If I said it before I'll say it again. COMMUNICATE! I can't put it in any other way.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Reality TV

When you watch tv what's usually on, reality tv! Is it really reality though? I don't think so. It started off years ago with the real world when it was for real, but nowadays it is getting carried away. It's pretty obvious that reality tv is fake because of how scripted the shows are especially since there is a consistency with the acting on these shows. Every single one of them have fights and drama and nothing serious on there that makes an impact to society. At the same time the show has to make money and entertain the people so that way the show can have ratings. If everything was positive on reality tv, they wouldn't make any money or continue the show which is pretty fake to begin with.

Domestic Abuse

When you think of domestic abuse, people automatically assume it's the guys fault because 90% of men are the abuser in the relationship. Domestic abuse comes in any type of relationship whether it deals with a man hitting a women, women hitting a man, women hitting women, or men hitting men. Either way it is wrong. Sometimes when you go into details of the act you don't know who to blame and what I mean by that is sometimes the victim could provoke the person to abuse and not the abuser being a pyschopath. So you can't just blame one person you can consider both people. The abuser can't help, but to react by fighting back in their defense. This not to make excuses for them, but sometimes that's usually the case when you consider an abusive situation in a relationship. The abuser doesn't really think about anything they just react immediately in the heat of the moment so therefore you can kind of blame the victim especially if they are the cause. The abuser is still wrong for what they did, but it's the fact that they couldn't help, but to react in a violent way if the victim was violent to them. The abuse that does often happens is when the abuser blames the victim for their actions such saying "look what you made me do" when the abuser had no business putting their hands up to begin with. The abuser has a lot of insecurities and anger issues that they can't seem to control so they would rather take it out on the person they say they love based on your vulnerabilty. When that happens you feel worst than what you already feel like, but I would like to know why do women feel they love someone that beats them to death. I don't understand what is there to love when it's all hate. Even though it's unhealthy love it doesn't seem like there was love there to begin with. I know it's hard to get out, but that is the only often to being happy. No one can make you happy until you make yourself happy because you are not always going to have someone there for you all the time. Always re-evaluate yourself before you enter someone else's life.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Dads And Lesbian Daughters

I've always wondered how men feel about how guys would feel if they had lesbians as daughters especially since they can't stand the thought of having a gay son. Having a lesbian daughter is slightly more acceptable than having a gay son because of the fact that she is a female. The dad would of course let the child know that they will be judged because of the cruelty of society. It shouldn't matter if you have a gay child because they still are people and you should love them no matter what. It is very important that they get unconditional love becuase this world is so mean and the person can't help the fact they are gay.

Mistakes Women Make When Dating

Women are very emotional creatures to the point where we love hard. So when it comes to dating we can't help, but to make silly mistakes especially on the first date. Some of the mistakes involve become too clingy, always saying yes, settling for less, etc. It seem like these days it is difficult to find a stable partner in your life, but do we loose people because of them or ourselves. It is true that we should get ourselves together before we settle with someone else because if you don't you'll create problems and start expecting things that you don't need to expect. It seems hard to recover after you get heartbroken so when we find someone with potential we tend to give our all before really knowing the guy. The littlest thing could set us off in a good way and that's when the clinginess comes in. A lot of times women are clingy because they are insecure, most guys don't like that especially when you are clingy because it is important for people to have space in any relationship because you'll get tired of each other. Always saying yes to someone will also lead to believe that you are insecure because it shows that you can't stand on your own. I've said this before, always have your standards set because it's important to know what you want so that way when you get it you can be in control of certain situation. If you ever come across someone that doesn't meet up, then you don't have to settle for that, but at the same time it's hard to just ignore that because women expect a change especially if she loves him. You can't change someone unless they want to be changed so again we need to check ourselves before we get involved with someone else. le ll[

Thursday, October 20, 2011

What Is Considered A Hoe?

How do you know someone really is a hoe? There is probably not a definite answer, but a lot of things give it away based on the person's character. There was an article that pointed out the signs on what is considered hoe-like behavior such as being embarrased on how partners you've had, your actions at the club, keeping pregnancy test all the time, sex on the first night, etc. Those sound like some reasonable signs, but does it really depend on the number or the behavior of the person? I can't really say a definition myself because it does depend on the person and how you carry yourself especially since anyone can be a hoe.

Turnoffs For Women

Everybody has a turnoff or dealbreaker when it comes to what they want out of a person, but the main ones for women are pretty self-explanatory and something to think about when it comes to standards. It is very important for people to have standards and when they do set them up they should stick with them. So some of the things that wouldn't guarantee to be in a women's standards (of course meaning turnoffs) would 1st off be a guy with an insecure personality. Sometimes when a guy is insecure he tries to control his women or just lower her self-esteem in general because he's afraid that someone better would come into her life and take her away from him. That's pretty sad to do that because it is a true fact that you should love yourself before you love others because there would be no love to begin with and then you both would come into the relationship with so many problems. Another type of guy that is a turnoff is the oversensative guy. There was a study done that said that guys who cry constantly have psychological problems that usually turns to suicide and what not. That is scary to think about because I would think the same would go for women as well, but maybe not as bad as men. So therefore it is a major turnoff for a guy to be oversensative. The 3rd major turnoff is the cocky guy. Women don't want to deal with a guy that's either a pretty boy or feels that everything about him is the best thing on God's earth. You are pretty much better off marrying yourself when you act like that. There is no need to remind people every 5 secs how fine you are or how good you are at something, etc. That gets so annoying after a while. There is nothing wrong with being confident, but there is a difference between confidence and being cocky. Don't be cocky, that makes you look worst than what you are telling yourself. What is the girl therefore if all you talk about is yourself anyway. Women love to feel validated and treated like princesses so when you distant yourself from her just because you feel that you can get any girl in the world, you don't need to be in a relationship especially long-term serious relationship. So the next time you want a fresh start with someone new, try to re-evaluate yourself before you get involved with someone because you are going to be dealing with someone else's emotions, problems, feelings, and habits that you somewhat have to adjust to. It may not be easy, but if you COMMUNICATE you'll be able to balance your relationships more smoothly.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Earning The Cookies

It is very important than a women cherishes her body and make a man wait a long time for sex. A lot of girls theses days give it up too quickly without even knowing the guy if they want a long-term relationship. A guy has sex on his mind all the time so you have the control of distracting him from the lust if you want to be with him for a long time. A guy could only do what you allow him to do. Always know that your body is your temple and both you and him and to respect it. Set up your standards when you date so that way you have an idea of what you want out of a man. Once you know what you want you have a better chance of finding it. It is up to you on how long you think a guy should wait to have your cookies of course meaning sex. If he's a man then he should wait. If he's impatient that does not mean you should give in. He's pretty much telling you I don't have time to for all that waiting. Remember you are in control of your body. There is a really good song about celibacy called "My Body" and it's by a gospel group named Trin-i-tee 5:7 and even it you are not celibate it's still go inspiration of song about waiting for sex.

The History Of Saggin

I'm still confused on the dynamic of boys sagging their pants. A lot of straight guys that I know of are homophobic or just doesn't think gay people exist, but yet when you look back on the history of sagging your pants that usually meant an inmate wanted some action from another person. I would like to one day have a normal conversation with a bunch of guys on why they feel they need to keep this trend alive for a long time. I find it odd because of the fact that at one point it was supposedly going to consider a crime of some sort where if a guy is caught wearing the pants low they would get fined, but it doesn't seemed to be acknowledged anymore . I really want to know if guys feel that it is comfortable to wear their pants that way or if they have a need to fit in and keep up with the latest styles regardless of where it came from. It's oddly interesting how people could take something that came from a negative dimension and turn it into a trend. It makes you wonder what is next for future generations. A lot of journalist argue that people change the way we view what is considered cool and what is considered whack. We all clearly know everybody has different definitions and ideas on how we feel about those 2 topics, but it also leads to more questions because of the different opinions we get. The style of sagging also lead to certain stereotypes meaning that some people that if a black guy wears their pants saggy then they are considered thugs, but if a white guy wears his pants saggy then he would be considered a scateboarder. Those are 2 completely opposite stereotypes, yet it deals with the same gender. So not only has society categorize gender, but race as well bases off of a fashion style. I would also like to ask women if they mind they mind the style or are they disgusted by now being that this such a growing trend and why should guys just feel the need to tell women not to wear their pants saggy. That's being contradictive. Will boys also feel that they will grow out of the style or continue it and pass it on to their kids?

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Generation Of Males

Young guys today are a mystery. I say this because there are a lot of things about guys that women are still confused about including myself. Maybe we will never understand them. A few questions come through my mind that I would like to ask someone. A lot of guys say that they want a strong, independent women, but yet there is a statistic stating that there are 42% of successful women that are unmarried or struggling to find a man. Steve Harvey had mentioned in both of his books "Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man" as well as "Straight Talk, No Chaser" that a women should have standards in order to find a man that she is looking for, but for some reason women still aren't getting what they want. He also stated that men are ashamed of the fact that they didn't get where they need to be so they can provide for their women. Maybe the men saying they want a strong, independent women have them already leaving the rest of the men not meeting at the level where they need which is causing those 42% of unwed women a statistics. I could be wrong because obviously I don't have all the sources. Another growing issue is the amount of deadbeat dads in the world. The problem with this is, is the fact that women sometimes force their child on the guy which will drive him away and then women end up calling him a deadbeat. So it's kind of like who do you blame. The guy is wrong for not standing up to his responsiblilities, but the women also should be just as responsible as picking someone who will be a good father or not forcing everything on the guy and screaming at him because let's be for real nobody wants to be screamed at. I do commend every parent out there because it is a cruel world and you are doing your best, but what could we possibly do to make positive changes to the way we live our lives that's causing baggage?

Has Music Changed?

What do people really think of music these days? Everybody seems to have mixed feelings about it. It's to the point where nobody will ever come to aggreements with it. What I don't understand is the fact that is the dynamics of it. It pretty much changed once we entered the new millenium. Did people think it was time for a change within music or is it because people just got used to what was coming next. Do people also think that our music is really effecting the younger generation or do kids pick up their bad habits from other things. I don't know what to think because it is what it is and either way the music industry is making money and as long people keep listening to music the industry will keep selling songs. I talk about a topic similar to this one and even my classmates had mixed feelings as well. Which means we probably never get a definite answer.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Limited Partners

How many sex partners is too much? Most people would consider going past both of your hands a bit much, but everyone has their preference. There is actually a calculation method that says that whatever number the girls says is multiplied by 5 and added by 3 the reverse happens with the guy of whatever number he says is divided by 5 and subtracted by 3 and those are their actual numbers. What are your limits when you enter a relationship?

Who Plays Better Mind Games? Men of Women

I really don't know who plays it better, but a lot of guys say women do and a lot of women say men do which therefore nobody knows. I will say that some women feel that they are better at the game than men even though men can easily get any girl by saying a few words. Most men will "play to lay" meaning he'll talk you into sleeping with him. They then become spontaneous with it they will play the same game with a different girl which causes riots between the girls. Sometimes you don't even realize a guy is playing games on you because he is that good at it. He can manipulate you into doing anything by telling you everything that you want to hear. Some other games a guy will play is to see if he can get a girl good enough for the moment. It sounds very cold, but it happens often. On the women side they will do the waiting game. This means that she will make the guy wait knowing that she wants nothing to do with him in the first place. She will have him thinking that she is a good guy waiting for the right guy when she really doesn't want to hurt his feelings, instead she just leaves him horny. Another trick she will do is leave delayed text messages. Guys don't really like to be ignored that much so he does he feels some type of way. Once the girl knows that she tries to manipulate him into whatever she wants him to do. The one game that both women and men play is the make up to break up game. They will pick fights with each other and then have make up sex or turn to someone else for sex which is a bit silly. In the end both genders play mind games at some point.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Strip Clubs And Relationships

Some people would feel like strip clubs causes a lot of issues in their relationships because of the frequency he/she goes. For others they might either go together or don't feel it's a problem at all. So it's really up to the 2 of you know how comfortable you are about using strip clubs as a priority. The biggest thing any relationship should have is trust and when it disappears you'll will always have a lot of problems which also leads to the amount of boundaries you set in the relationship. Another big thing is communication. When you don't have enough communication that's when the trust levels become the issue and then a simple priority such as going to strips put a strain on the relationship. So know your limits and know your partners limits.

Young People Are Obsessed With Love

Becoming a teenager is a big deal because you are going through so many changes in your life that takes a lot out of you. Your hormones are going crazy and therefore you think you know how to handle yourself just because you're growing up. Sometimes your hormones can be the devil because it makes your mind do crazy things. For girls they fall in love very easily because we are very emotional. Boys just want to have fun with everything they do including girls. So when it comes to relationships 9/10 the girls tends to love the guy more than she loves herself. That causes a lot of unhealthy issues that puts the girl under so much stress. She goes through so many self-esteem issues because it's always all about impressioning the guy or making someone jealous instead of making themselves look good for their own self. That's very important to do that because you have to maintain a reputation to keep you out of trouble and high school is known for cliches and different categories of people. Some teens are just addicted to being in relationships or falling in love and then they fall in love too quickly because your hormones gives you all these sexual feelings and you can't seem to control them so therefore so run into situations that you can't easily get out of because your emotions are too strong to just leave the relationship. Another issue is the fact that a lot people mainly women are so scared of being alone. It's like a phobia to be by yourself and they need that sense of attachment to feel complete as a person. That's very scary to go through that because you have to make yourself happy before anyone else could because not everybody will give that happiness often. You never know when you are going to leave that person so your only backup is you so when you have this hate for being alone you tend to get depressed from being lonely.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Falling In Love

How do people really know they are in love? That's a question a lot of people ask sometimes because they don't realize they are in love or the fact that love is right in front of them. Do many people even believe in love at first sight or is that something people just say. People do tend to get love and lust mixed up because of the feelings that be involved. There are some signs that people say what makes you tell that you are in love such as forgetting about your ex, thinking about the other person constantly, caring about the person, not noticing other people, spending a lot of time with the person, and the biggest one which the fact that you think about a future with the person. Those signs are some heavy ones because it seems like love is a drug that you need to go to rehab for if you get too much out of it especially with a bunch of people. At the same time can people really tell or do they just get played thinking that they are in love. Maybe we know, maybe we don't know.


It's ashame that the one thing that is suppose 2 make u successful is the one thing that can fail u at the same time. I'm talking about college. Growing up I always thought that college wasn't an option because when you have a degree you get more money and better positions at jobs. My generation and I have come 2 realize that college really is a scam. I saw a documentary about this issue and what I saw was shocking. There were people burning their degrees because they said it made no difference when it came down to jobs. On top of that the college presidents raise the tuition fees on purpose just out of greed and the fact that they don't care that people these days can't afford it. Most colleges don't care about a person's success because it is all about the money. These professors make u take these classes when the books are not necessary to use to begin with. Then you are stuck with the book because you can't seem 2 sell it back because the book store doesn't want it. That is so frustrating to deal with. At the same time there are so many people in so much debt because of student loans that are swallowing peoples money once they graduate and it is so sad that we have to go through that all because of the manacing greed. A stop needs to come immediately.

Friday, October 14, 2011


What do people really think of music these days? Everybody seems to have mixed feelings about it. It's to the point where nobody will ever come to aggreements with it. What I don't understand is the fact that is the dynamics of it. It pretty much changed once we entered the new millenium. Did people think it was time for a change within music or is it because people just got used to what was coming next. Do people also think that our music is really effecting the younger generation or do kids pick up their bad habits from other things. I don't know what to think because it is what it is and either way the music industry is making money and as long people keep listening to music the industry will keep selling songs. I talk about a topic similar to this one and even my classmates had mixed feelings as well. Which means we probably never get a definite answer.

90s Are All That

I am without a doubt happy about what teen nick did to our universe. They brought the 90's back. All of the shows we used to watch as a kid are back on TV. It was the best thing teen nick could've ever done because their ratings went sky high once they did that. I wonder why lol. This is all people in my generation have been talking about because it is so sad what TV has come down to these days. Nickelodeon is corny except for spongebob, the fairly oddparents and Jimmy Neutron. Reality shows are popular even though they are fake. Even game shows has died out. What has this world come to. The 90's were an era happiness and excitement. They hold so much memories because the shows seemed more realer and very dynamic. Now these days everything is scripted an so phony. For the 1st few weeks it starts off with all that, kenan & kel, clarissa explains it all, and doug afterwards they show the best of nickelodeon. It feels good to know that I don't have to go on youtube to find the better shows because now they are back on TV. It is all over people's facebooks about this same topic because people kept getting in contact with these stations how it was better to leave the 90's on TV. The funny part is it starts at midnight and ends at 4 AM. It's a decent time frame for me because I'm a night person. Luckily I will be talking about this topic on my radio show to really go in depth and discuss this a lot further because this is such a relief and a blessing for people who grow up in the 90's including myself.